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July 19, 2023 8,955 notes digitalis-obscura

estrogenesis-evangelion

redditors coming to tumblr is gonna create a spike in people figuring out they're trans that will rival even the first 6 months of quarantine

estrogenesis-evangelion

it's ok, boys. i was once as you are. let the questions bloom & the answers enfold you 🌸

brady-like-the-bunch

PSA to newcomers! if you:

  • constantly think about what it would be like to be another gender
  • feel envy towards another gender (sometimes mixed up with attraction to that gender)
  • believe anyone would choose to be that other gender if they could because it’s simply the better option
  • feel like you lost a genetic coin flip at conception because you could have been another gender
  • feel anguish and longing because you’re not “one of the girls”/“one of the boys” or because you’re excluded from gendered activities like girls’ nights
  • have dismissed the idea of transitioning yourself because you wouldn’t be “real” enough, or because “real” trans people know for sure when they’re young

then uhhhhhh you might want to think about that a bit! if any of those things rang a bell, then DM me and we’ll chat about it 🩵🩷🤍 😘

abalidoth

And always remember -- you never need the "whole thing". Gender identity and expression are both vast spectrums.

It's way more useful, rather than trying to answer the big question of Am I Really A Girl (tm), to break it down into individual subunits:

  • What aspects of my current body and/or gendered existence (social interaction, name, pronouns, terms of address, etc etc) am I unhappy with?
  • What aspects am I neutral about, but could be better?
  • What measures of transition exist to address those needs?

To use myself as an example: I genuinely hated the way that testosterone made me feel, emotionally and physically. Going on testosterone blockers was a way to solve that problem.

But I like my facial hair, especially after estrogen, so I kept it.

If you feel like aspects of being your assigned gender are painful to you, but you're not sure you're Really A Woman/Man (tm), figure out what'll make you happy and just do that. Take my hand, and join me in the big wide world of gender homebrewing.

July 19, 2023 26,280 notes synthlet

junkratsadstuck

here at the sandwich shop, we’ve started to notice some people who are new to sandwiches aren’t used to meat and cheese between two slices of bread. they find this practice strange and confusing. that’s why we’ve decided to cut the bread out all together. from now on, we’ll just serve slices of meat and cheese on a plate.

junkratsadstuck

we know that many of our loyal sandwich shop customers have been coming here for years to buy our delicious sandwiches. but some people don’t “get” sandwiches, and we need to try and appeal to them with an easier-to-understand meal format. we will no longer be serving sandwiches. all of our food will just be cold cuts on a paper plate. we love our customers and appreciate your understanding <3